Colyer's Copy

I must first stress; I have a wonderful fiancé who has never, nor would-ever hurt me. However, he has suffered the hands of the affair I lived through; through no fault of his own. I am not carrying this into 2020 for sure, I am not carrying this as of today. The thing about affairs is that rarely, the victim of the betrayal hardly gets asked how it made them  feel  long after the initial anger and upset has subsided. Initially, the perpetrator wants to minimise all conversation regarding what they have done. They are in denial, ashamed and embarrassed – rightly so. Wishing to quash all dialogue and bury their head in the sand and batting off questions by projecting their anger of what they’ve done onto their betrayed spouse. Whilst at the same time, the victim of the disloyalty has an urgent hunger to discuss in great detail the timeline of deceit; when, where, how often – merely, wanting answers! I found myself recalling to my instincts. I knew something was wrong a year per...

Welcome to Colyer’s Copy, a personal blog from a young adult female trying to make her way in the world. There have been a few big changes in my life recently, with more to come.  I feel if I can share my experiences good and bad on here, I can hopefully help or entertain you if you’re going though the same. It took me a long time to grow out of Tumblr I admit, somethings about my teenage years I really struggled let go of! So now I find myself on Blogger. Writing article-style musings rather than angst filled ramblings and outbursts my former self  may*  have done from time to time. So, a quick rundown of me as an individual 7 facts about me: Colyer  – My soon-to-be name, I am getting married next year. I am wearing-in my new name early. I take A LOT of photographs  13,000 a year or more, my loved ones roll their eyes – that is until I present the pictures years later, they are quite appreciative of the reminiscing. I like food.  Ok, I  LOOOOOOVE...